- English translation
You play the generous almsgiver, yet your own plight would bring anyone to tears.
- Literal wording
O you who give alms, your condition makes one weep.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying addresses someone who plays the part of an almsgiver, handing out charity as though they had plenty to spare; the almsgiving stands for a show of wealth, not religious duty. The jab is that their hidden situation is so needy it would move an observer to tears, making the display look hollow.
More broadly, it points to the gap between a fine outward show and a poor inner reality. It warns that an attractive surface can mislead, and it gently mocks people who maintain an image of comfort or largesse while their true condition deserves pity.
- When it is used
Said, often wryly, about someone who displays generosity or affluence while their real circumstances are strained. Suits remarks on keeping up appearances, overspending to impress, or any polished exterior hiding hardship. It can sound mocking if aimed directly at the person.
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