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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«لَا بْمَالَكْ تِرَغَّبْنِي وَلَا بْحَلَاوْتَكْ تِعْجِبْنِي»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Your money doesn't tempt me, and your looks don't win me over.

Literal wording

Neither with your wealth do you make me desire you, nor with your sweetness do you please me.

Meaning and lesson

The speaker explains why they feel no pull toward another person. That person has no riches to tempt them and no physical appeal to captivate them, though the word used can also suggest charm or pleasantness. With both denials, there is no reason to pursue or fawn over them, and the other side is left with nothing to offer.

Beneath the surface lies a rhetorical challenge: what could possibly make me eager for you? The saying deflates someone's sense of their own worth or importance, and it implies that devotion or attention must rest on some real attraction, whether material or personal, rather than being owed for nothing.

When it is used

Fits a blunt rebuff when someone expects attention or devotion they have not earned. A speaker uses it to explain refusing to court or flatter a person who offers neither material gain nor personal appeal. Aimed directly at someone, it is pointedly dismissive and can sound insulting.

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Colloquial, dialectal Arabic
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