- English translation
A husband is faulted for a thin purse.
- Literal wording
The man's fault is his pocket.
- Meaning and lesson
A husband is measured by what he provides. The fault people hold against a married man, rather than men in general, is that he spends too little on his wife and children; his purse, more than his other traits, decides how others judge him as head of a household.
The pocket stands for money and spending on the family. The saying does not settle why he spends little: it may point to stinginess or simply to a lack of means that leaves the family short. Both readings stay open, but either way the flaw lies in how the household is supported.
- When it is used
Fits comments on a husband who spends too little on his wife and children, or reminders that a provider is judged chiefly by what he gives his household. It can sound blunt or reproachful when aimed at a specific person.
- Register
- colloquial
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