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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«هِيَّ الْقُطَّهْ تَاكُلَ اوْلَادْهَا»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Does a cat ever eat her own kittens?

Literal wording

Is it [that] the cat eats her children?

Meaning and lesson

A rhetorical question insisting that a parent's sternness has natural limits. However severe a mother or father may appear toward a child, the saying holds, the bond between them keeps that harshness from ever turning into real, lasting injury.

It can reassure someone who fears a parent's anger, or defend a parent's strictness as ultimately protective. The image rests on a folk assumption, not biological fact, that no mother cat would devour her own young, so the listener is meant to answer with an obvious no.

When it is used

Suitable for calming a child, sibling, or friend who dreads a parent's punishment, or for suggesting that a parent's scolding is more bluster than danger. Because it minimizes parental harshness, it should never be used to excuse or downplay situations where genuine harm or abuse may be involved.

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