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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«يَاكُلْ وِيِشْرَبْ وِوَقْتِ الْحَاجَةْ يِهْرَبْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

He's always there to eat and drink, but the moment he's needed, he's gone.

Literal wording

He eats and drinks, and at the time of need he runs away.

Meaning and lesson

The saying condemns a person who enjoys the good things others provide, such as food, drink, and hospitality, yet disappears as soon as a real need arises. Such a person takes freely from a relationship but offers nothing in return when support is expected.

At a broader level, it warns that someone's presence during easy times shows little about their reliability. True worth appears in moments of difficulty, and a companion who flees then has revealed that their attachment rested on benefit alone.

When it is used

Say it about anyone, man or woman, who readily shares meals, comforts, or benefits but vanishes once help, effort, or loyalty is asked. It is a sharp complaint about a relative, friend, or dependent; aimed at a specific person, it can land as an insult.

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