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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِللِّي مَا لُهْ خِيرْ فِي أَخَاهْ، اِلْغَرِيبْ مَا يِسْتَرْجَاهْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

If a man is no good to his own brother, a stranger can expect nothing from him.

Literal wording

Whoever has no good in him for his brother, the stranger does not hope for anything from him.

Meaning and lesson

The proverb treats a person's conduct toward his own brother as a test of whether he can be relied on. If he shows no goodness, help, or generosity there, a stranger has little reason to expect it from him.

Its force is a warning against misplaced hope, not a universal judgment about all family relationships or groups of people. Someone who has failed his brother is presented as an especially doubtful source of kindness or support for an outsider.

When it is used

Say it when warning someone not to rely on a person who has failed his own brother. It suggests that a stranger should be cautious about expecting help or goodwill from that person.

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