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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«مِنْ شَافْ بَلْوِةْ غِيرُهْ هَانِتْ بَلْوِتُهْ عَلِيهْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Once you see another person's troubles, your own become easier to bear.

Literal wording

Whoever has seen the affliction of someone else, his own affliction has become light upon him.

Meaning and lesson

The saying holds that comparison can bring relief. When a person notices the hardships others endure, whether trials, losses, or misfortunes of any kind, their own trouble shrinks by contrast and feels more manageable. The pain has not changed; what changes is the sense of proportion through which it is viewed.

It also carries a quiet lesson in contentment and gratitude. Recognizing that worse situations exist encourages a person to accept their present lot with patience and to feel thankful, instead of treating their own misfortune as uniquely unbearable.

When it is used

Suited to moments of consolation or self-reflection, when someone weighed down by a personal difficulty is reminded, or reminds themselves, that others carry heavier loads. Offered gently, not as a rebuke; said to someone in fresh grief, it can sound dismissive of their pain, so tone and timing matter.

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