- English translation
Once you see another person's troubles, your own become easier to bear.
- Literal wording
Whoever has seen the affliction of someone else, his own affliction has become light upon him.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying holds that comparison can bring relief. When a person notices the hardships others endure, whether trials, losses, or misfortunes of any kind, their own trouble shrinks by contrast and feels more manageable. The pain has not changed; what changes is the sense of proportion through which it is viewed.
It also carries a quiet lesson in contentment and gratitude. Recognizing that worse situations exist encourages a person to accept their present lot with patience and to feel thankful, instead of treating their own misfortune as uniquely unbearable.
- When it is used
Suited to moments of consolation or self-reflection, when someone weighed down by a personal difficulty is reminded, or reminds themselves, that others carry heavier loads. Offered gently, not as a rebuke; said to someone in fresh grief, it can sound dismissive of their pain, so tone and timing matter.
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- colloquial
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